Guest post of the week by Nestor Nielsen
Just married. That phrase can mean so much. Are you “just married” or did you just get married? It seems that so many people are “just married.” They are satisfied with living the status quo. Richness and depth is a lost dream, but to newlyweds everything is an adventure. Going to the grocery store is like a romantic date, logging on to http://www.expertsatellite.com/ and picking a satellite package is as important as buying the ring, and cleaning the house is just like they were building their dreams one room at a time. How do we keep that passion alive? How can we avoid the drudgery of middle age and middle marriage? We do the things newlyweds do. Get excited about the grocery store, TV packages, and cleaning. We make it a game, an adventure. You’re only as happy as you think you are, so why can’t the everyday be extraordinary? And why can’t we continue to be blind to our spouse’ s flaws and 20/20 on his/her assets? It’s all a matter of perspective. Where’s yours?